[Ninastar]

In ways I do yes... Especially when people hang themselves/overdose in their own house where someone they love will definitely find them.

We know someone who tried to commit suicide a few weeks back. He hung himself on the curtain rail and his girlfriend found him when she got home. He planned everything ahead so that when he was found, no one would be able to get him down because he hid all the knives in the house. She had to hold his unconscious body until the ambulance got there. I cant imagine anything worse.

I think its selfish, but I can also understand in some ways. I mean 80% of the time people commit suicide because of bullying. I think they end up thinking that badly of themselves that they dont end up thinking properly. So they arent in the right state of mind before attempting to do it. No one in their right mind would commit suicide, there is always a reason behind it. So its hard to say its totally selfish without knowing everything... I'm so undecided with this topic because I dont think we will ever understand until we've been there. Which I wouldn't wish on any tibber.