[Ammi]

..oh I totally agree with the 'make believe' bit..children can make believe either at home/playschool/friend's houses etc whatever they're wearing, it's all imagination...it's a question on his clothing and whether it was something the playschool allowed or not because 'dress up clothing' isn't what is generally worn for playschool on a regular basis...


..EDIT:..when I say that I don't believe that 4y olds should be allowed to do what they want, I don't mean in terms of stifling their imagination or play but in terms of structure in their lives and having to adhere to structured situations..we all have to, to some extent...