Thread: Toya Is Toya mentally ill?
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Old 23-06-2014, 12:18 PM #5
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Originally Posted by Robodog View Post
Last night i was genuinely worried about her mental state.

The way she blows up at people is not a normal, balanced reaction to what's occurring in the house.

From the intensity and anger of her argument - she acts and sounds like she is having a major bust up with a long term partner, abusive parent or someone in her life with a lot of dark history.

There is clearly some deep seated anger in her that is looking for an outlet. She has brought that anger with her into the house and she is taking it out on the others around her.

She repeats the same few lines - as if they are pre-rehearsed - about 'showing your true colours' and 'respect' etc. It doesn't matter what the argument is actually about - she says the same things every time.

She is full of contradictions. She forces people to listen to her - but she won't listen to them. She calls people names like 'f*-in idiot' but cannot handle people calling her names back. It's all very one sided.

When she argues, she doesn't seem to care about finding solutions or seeing things from another's perspective - her only aim in these arguments is to dominate people and make herself feel she has the upper hand over others.

So where does that come from?

I would imagine, she has felt dominated by someone or something in her life and it eats away at her - so now she feels she has to 'do it to others before they do it to her'. It's the only thing that explains her behaviour to me. Not very nice for the others to be on the receiving end of and a bit uncomfortable to watch if i'm honest.

So yeah - i used to think she was just a moody girl but last night was pretty extreme so i think she has issues that need dealing with and had them before she came to the BB house for sure.
I think her only issue is that she is a nasty bint!
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