[Romantic Old Bird]

No, Sticks, leave poor old Stuart alone!

Why should he have to keep answering questions about Helen and Paul? He's not their keeper, and has other things going on in his life which are a lot more important to him than that.

He has always been courteous and answered your questions promptly I know, but it must be really annoying for him. I would be embarassed to ask.

Why don't we just wait and see what happens for them?

Some of us either have, or will send an email to support Helen.

Otherwise, they are grown ups, who have their health, saleable skills and a few bob under their belts. Could be worse.