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Originally Posted by Sophiee
I think people ruin it for themselves with that line, because they either don't do it in the house (and are then classed as a coward/liar etc) or they do and are accused of being nasty people. it's a lose-lose situation in my opinion.
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Yeah absolutely. I'm also unsure why everyone perceives it to be such a good trait on paper. Surely it's better to know when it's appropriate to be honest and give your opinion and when it's appropriate to keep quiet and resist temptation to say anything on your mind?