Wonderful post J.C and upon refelction I was caught up in the whole issue when Nodis first arrived - I am glad he stuck around though
I suppose another thing is those that have been here longer (like myself) feel like our comfort zone is being invaded. A bit like someone deciding to wear your slippers if you understand what I mean.
I know there are things I personally can do differently and just wonder if other members are prepared to admit that also.
As for the bans JC it is 3 warnings then out - each ban lasts a little longer after 3 we apply a permanent ban. I personally have tried to look the other way when people have argued to allow them time to work out differences, since that hasnt worked I will apply the rules to the letter to everyone who posts here.