well it certainly isnt something I have seen done before and I have been taking holidays abroad for years and years! In Turkey last year we had a couple with 2 small children in the room next door to us and one night the kids were flat out and we were talking on the balconies, their mum seemed keen to go out but was resigned to not going. We offered to sit with the kids but as they had only known us a week I understood their reluctance, in fact I admired it! We spent many an evening with them in the bar of the apartments with their youngest flat out on one of our knees or in her buggy asleep