[NotAWannabe]

Why are some people so polarised in their view ? It's a relationship/interaction that develops over time. It's dynamic, each influences the other's behaviour, sometimes magnifying their natural inclinations. With these recent events, some are saying "X made the first move" as if that makes X an angel and Y the devil incarnate.

Over the years I have watched BB it seems to me that in the final week, previous 'enemies' lighten up and at least superficially become more friendly. For example, Nadia and Jason in BB5. This year is the same, albeit more exaggerated because of the producers interference. I suspect Helen and Ashleigh were naturally coming to this state of affairs anyway, regardless of external influence. Who ever made 'the first move', did not do so 'out of the blue' or in isolation. There was an appropriate time.

When X made this 'first move', I don't expect they would have done so if Y had been scowling at them at the time.