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Originally Posted by cfromhx02
What Helen said about Jale was disgusting and I promise I was totally against that too.
However, it wasn't bullying.
Jale wasn't really bullied because she obviously didn't feel she was or scared because she & Kim went off so easily to plot with Ashleigh behind Helen's back.
You have to ask yourselves, when Jale etc went off to plot behind Helen with Ashleigh and obey everything Ashleigh wanted who is it Jale & Kim were really scared of and really manipulated, bullied by ?
It is Ashleigh and BB who really bullied and scared Jale and Kim then forcing Jale and Kim to feel like they had to go along with what Ashleigh wanted and conform yo what she wanted to vote for.
Real bullying is a continual attack,usually pre meditated,often backed up by untruths & usually carried out in a cold continuous manner over & over against one target or a small group for a long period.
Only Ashleigh & BB have been cold hearted & carried out pre planned attacks on one individual IE Helen often based on untruths for a continuous long period.
So only Ashleigh and BB are the real bulies.
Helen is a big hearted soft hearted individual who as a part of being emotional and soft hearted is also sometimes fiery and can;t control the things she says when she thinks she is standing up against unfairness or nasty behaviour,
she thought Jale was bitching behind her back & thought she was staring & spying on her & she just thought Mathew was boring and a bit of a bitch himself.
Helen has not carried on the abuse against Jale or Mathew or ever carried on abuse, like Ashleigh and BB have and has never done it in a cold hearted pre meditated way often based on lies trying to influence what the public think thorough the camera which has been what Ashleigh and BB have done the most.
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I absolutely CANNOT stand Ashleigh but I don't think she or anyone else REALLY bullied anyone in there. Every housemate was more than capable for standing up for themselves. Its the weak person who ISNT capable of standing up for themselves and is deeply hurt by another is BULLIED. I didn't see this this year