[Ammi]

..James was right in saying that it was rude to shhhh someone but it was because he was trying to say something while Gary was talking which I've noticed him do a few times with people and he doesn't appear to me to always really be listening just impatient to speak himself...so they were both right there but then James went on to make it a....'I'm only telling you so that you 'fit' in with us/this is what we do'...thing...who are the 'you' and who are the 'us'..?....what's he talking about..?...