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Old 26-08-2014, 10:29 AM #19
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Originally Posted by Josy View Post
I don't think Gary's causing the problems no.

I do think it is showing how intolerant people (some people) are and can be to other peoples difficulties, I do not think it's bullying at all Gary can be awkward and annoying at times just like everyone else can but he is in no way 'insufferable'

They just can't be bothered to deal with Gary's hearing or other problems so the easy thing for them to do is isolate him, when they do need to repeat themselves and things like that they get annoyed about it as if it's a waste of their time.

Take the conversation with James from last nights highlights as an example. He was annoyed at Gary before they have even started having the conversation, he looked at Gary in disgust as if he wasn't entitled to join the conversation, the man is entitled to have an opinion and try to interact with the group.
I didn't notice that. When did it happen?
Do you see no blame in Gary at all? What about when David brought him the ice pack and he was rude and dismissive of him for example...Gary is a brilliant HM and he isn't the sole cause of the problems obviously, but he contributes to them.
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