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Originally Posted by LiamPRW
So if someone helps someone because they feel they need help, whether they like them or not, all good from helping said person get's taken away when they say something bad about them? i don't see that logic..
What I am trying to say is if we help someone dont then go and spoil the good deed by running the person down, it defeats the object and takes away the good will intended. Many help because they think they should but if it doesnt really come from the heart then the deed is void. Imo it is always the intent behind the purpose which counts. Are we trying to make ourselves look good or do we genuinely care?
In this instance James is getting a lot of camera time.....does he think he is great? It isnt just Gary he has had a go at...does he think he is in the right because the others seem to go along with him? How big is his ego?
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Agreed. James himself gave Frenchy a lecture when she apologised for throwing food etc. that an apology isn't worth anything if there's no feeling behind it and you're just saying it because you were told. Seems similar with James to me... his help means nothing if there's no feeling behind it, which there doesn't seem to be when he talks sh*t about Gary afterwards.