[Ammi]

....hmmmm, I think they can 'bring out the best..' or 'bring out the worst..'...maybe that depends on the reasons are maybe even the person making them/I don't know..?..'bye, I'm back off to uni/going travelling..' etc...'good luck..'..

...'there's stuff going on in my life, maybe not all good and I need to give that attention right now..'...'aww, good luck with that..'...


.....I think these are things 'beyond control..'...but then I think that there are times and for whatever reasons that a lot of people can feel just generally a bit lost on the forum or maybe they're upset about something/disillusioned etc...maybe they feel isolated..?..so maybe they make a thread/intend to leave/maybe the forum isn't a great place for them at that moment...'attention' is just a certain way that some people react/how their emotions are expressed, we're all different that way but there is no 'right' way, it's just how we are...and maybe what they're saying is....'hmmmm, I've lost a bit of perspective here/I'm not feeling great on the forum atm..' ..so they're just basically feeling low ...and then just to make them feel worse, there is so often...'bye hun, cya tomoz..x..'...yeah, I never really understand that...that person is trying to say something/communicate in the way they know how..?...it's no different or any less valid than someone who might take down their avatar/sig..interact less and less, maybe just tell a few close friends that they're not feeling great around the forum..?..they're just different ways is all but I think for most people, they can see that person is in 'pain'/'feeling in crisis..' etc..and how would they feel themselves if at that low time, they felt 'laughed at'/ridiculed/not taken seriously and just need a ..hey, everything ok..?....


..yeah, the best and the worst....