[just thinkin]

fair play demolition - nice explanation.

however shady jady does not feel like that - shady jady feels like 'different people give her different things' as she said in the first week, why should she not go off with somebody else and miss out on an amazing experience by sticking to the one person. Thats not polyamourus - thats 'out for what you can get'.

Also the fact that she says when she does 'find the one' all of this will stop and she will just be with the one person and he will just be with her.

thats not polyamourous or a different lifestyle.

That's just playing the field till something better comes along. she's a plonker.