[crazycolaist]

Things like that dont affect every single people right away 'whoever you are' & if you think so you need to look up the word denial and the whole thing round when people say 'its my fault' when that **** happens. It always a thing somebody says when something crappy like that has happened so fresh. Admission of the situation takes time & for some the affect can come out after time. He isnt even out of the house yet so you and he doesnt even know how that will affect him in the outside world