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Originally Posted by Griffin5779
No....I"m saying they are on about the same level and it is unfair to condemn one as a bad person unless you are going to condemn the other as well...More over..as long as Chloe feels it ok to make jokes about Sam fingering herself ..she has no right to be offended by a fat joke.
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I do disagree with everything that you're saying, I'm just trying to work out your point. I Don't think the situations are remotely similar.
Chloe's joke, although arguably distasteful, did have some witty side to it. I genuinely believe if Sam appeared upset by the joke (instead of the shock and confused reaction) Chloe would have apologised. The main difference for me is that Marc repeatedly uses the same "joke" (the joke which involves zero wit), and decided to repeat the joke although it upsets people. He has never apologised for the joke but has instead tried to spin it in them "why can't you take a joke"
I don't see any similarities really, Chloe has never repeated a joke and definitely wouldn't if she saw it upset people. Marc's jokes are not even technically witty, it's just a cruel dig that he justifies as banter and will repeatedly do so despite the upset it may cause.
I understand you disagree and that you think the situations are super similar so I'm just wondering if you think they're both in the right and they're hilarious or they're both in the wrong and gone too far.