If someone on the TIBB forum receives U2U's off another forum member which are nasty & threatening, then it should be reported to a mod or admin.
Removing the system off the forum would be a real shame for all the members here.
Many members make some good friends because of U2Uing each other. I have really found some lovely people on here & without the U2U facility, it would be a real disappointment.
It is hard to really get to know members without it.
Also, how could you contact a mod or admin, if you need advice or have a problem? (It just wouldn't work.)
I know that many do use Yahoo & MSN as an alternative way of communicating, but to U2U on this forum is easier & better & safer too.
I would advise it personally
nodisharmony