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Originally Posted by Amy Jade
So my boyfriend is 3 years older than me and he has a full time job wheras I still go to college, today was my last day for summer and we had talked about going to blackpool for the weekend with a few others just to get away.
So i got a text off my friend earlier that we arent going now because the guys are going to Newcastle for a 'lads' weekend and she is angry because she booked time off work for blackpool and I'm really pissed off too, I have my bags packed for tomorrow and Brad (my boyfriend) didn't even tell me, I'd have got up at 6 to get ready and the worst part is I text him asking him whats going on and he's making out I am being a bitch and dramatic for being pissed off
Urhghgdthss am I in the wrong here?
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[QUOTE=Amy Jade;7987510]
He said it's no big deal because I paid nothing towards the trip so I have no right to be pissed off because he's the one loosing money but that's not the point, they booked a hotel at about 5 today according to my friend and we have text all night, why not mention it?[/QUOTE]
..because he knows that he has been unfair/did wrong/feels guilt and is trying to deflect that onto you, Amy...
..I'm not going to say ..dump him etc etc because this one thing is not your whole relationship with him and it would be unfair to judge him on this one thing... only you really know him, know whether he's someone you want to be with/'flaws and all' etc....there are obviously good things that you see in him as well....and I'm not going to say, have a great weekend with your friend in Blackpool instead and forget about him in Newcastle and what's happened because you won't help but think about stuff and him...but just try to take what you can from it all and do whatever you want to do this weekend, either spending time with friends or just time on your own or whatever because letting it all occupy your mind and thoughts won't change anything except leave you with a fairly rubbish weekend...
..I also know that if there are any decisions to be made Amy, you'll make the right ones for you...
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