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When I was in highschool, my friend (15 at the time) was dating a 19 year old. They didn't have sex until she was older than 16. It seemed weird to me at the time (she was the same age as me), but she was fairly mature for her age and though I never met the guy, he seemed respectable and normal. I think it would seem slightly pervy if the older person was well over 20, but I don't think there is that much difference between 15/16 and 19. I think it really depends on the situation though, I've always preferred people much older than me and at the moment I'm doing a film course with people who are 17/18 and being 24 now, they seem quite immature and like spotty teenagers and I couldn't ever imagine dating one of them.