[Ammi]

....hmmm, drama though..I do recall the thread referred to and there was no drama that I could see that would cause anything negative to anyone other than the OP themselves..and exactly so it did because it evoked a 'pack' of many negative comments, which I think were far worse than anything from the thread-maker...sadly this is something that so often/too often happens on the forum, I think and is quite uncomfortable to see...it's also something that seems to become very 'contagious' as negativity breeds...

...anyways, whether it be an 'I'm back' thread from a member who has been away for a while or a previously banned member, if our responses are negative then that's probably what we're going to get back and not allow for that member ever to feel that they can 'fit' ....