[Jamie89]

I think it's always best to forgive or walk away. Seeking revenge can turn into an obsession and you'll more likely end up more hurt than you were to begin with. Doing something bad to someone else is a stressful thing (regardless of if they've done something bad to you first), not something that will make you feel good in the long run, so it just isn't worth it. And I think if you are able to get over it and move on without seeking revenge you'll feel a better, and a stronger person for it.

I had an ex who cheated on me and it was the most hurtful experience of my whole life, and I had a couple of friends who told me I should go out and sleep with someone to 'even the score', as if that would undo the hurt he caused me, and I'm so glad I didn't because even though it ended up not working out between us in the end, I felt so much better at the time for forgiving him and trying to work through things instead of just going out and trying to hurt him. Revenge is sometimes the cowards way out I think