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Ok, this is a long shot.
How long ago did you go into hospital Vcky.
My daughter was three when I went in, it affected her quite a bit.
She not only wet her bed every night I was away but also every day at nursery.
It stopped the minute I came home, however I could not leave the room without her for a good while as she thought I was leaving her again.
I found that once I had fully recovered and was back to my normal health she became more settled.
Is funny how a little child interprets life Vicky, she might feel you may go away again, especially as you have not made a full recovery as yet.
Other than that, can you change her bedroom, or change it around even, she may have bad a nightmare and be frightened.
It does seem weird that she does not settle even with you and Hubby staying with her.
Good luck with it all, nothing worse than your child being unsettled and not sleeping.