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Old 03-12-2015, 05:18 PM #8
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Originally Posted by Vicky. View Post
She isn't eating any differently to what she always has...everything I can think of that it could possibly be, it isn't :S

Nothing is helping, not being more strict, not giving her more attention, nothing at all. Its just screaming constantly. I refuse to leave her screaming to the point of making herself sick too..maybe this is the issue, maybe thats how to sort it out, but I disagree with that completely.

The health visitor is supposed to help with **** like this, not judge us on a few toys lying out?!
You could always contact the people in charge of the health visitors, tell them your problem and admit you need help, but also say why you don't wish the previous health visitor to visit. If you get a good health visitor (I did and she was my life-line) then she can at least offer some suggestions.
I don't pretend to be a child expert, but have your daughter checked out by your doctor. If she is fine health wise, then leaving her to cry may be the only option.
It sounds awful, but at that age they can be incredibly manipulative and soon learn what pushes your buttons.
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