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Originally Posted by rusticgal
What Jeremy did was really commendable...I respected him for that...I'm sure many of us do. We are not disputing that though. Steph would have loved him to have walked out with her...for purely selfish reasons...to have him at her side, which he was happy to do. They all went in the house for exposure and to win..and their fee of course. Steph has completely failed to achieve what she went in there to do. Jeremy was an unknown...he wanted exposure...he wanted to win and she never took once gave that a thought because shes all me me me.
She has a lot of growing up to do...and she needs to stop thinking the world revolves around her and start taking responsibility for her actions.....and maybe thinking of others before herself and the effect her actions have on other people.
She is a truly selfish woman and you are blind if you don't see her selfishness.
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I agree that she can be selfish but I think it's immaturity and not vindictive...most of them are selfish ...it's par for the course....it's almost a prerequisite ...one day she was so selfish I wanted her out....but I've never thought it was vindictive or calculated and I have never disagreed with her wanting to be with him....and i can understand how scared she was the other night and how terrifying it must be to know what awaits her on the outside.....if Jeremy said he was going with her then Jeremy meant it...he always means what he says....and she was probably relieved he was gonna protect her but who knows what was discussed in the build up to them both saying they were going to leave together....she is scared and she has def been bullied in there by some of the older females and there's no way Jeremy would want to leave her to face the music alone...but why are you so sure that she didn't want to leave with him when he went ? Are we sure that Jeremy didn't ask her to stay ...stay so she could thumb her noses at the others who've picked on her. She needs protecting when she comes out and I think he will be there for her...he doesn't need protecting, he never has....he knows that and so does she....you may be right, we've def been given footage that would appear that you are right ...but I think,at some point during their discussions about it, she would have said that Jeremy should stay behind without her....I don't know this for sure....but if people believe she is being selfish then why don't those same people also strongly dislike other housemates who have been equally as selfish ? If I believed Steph was genuinely vindictive and selfish then I would dislike her just like I do Gemma...no question...but I don't think that.