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Originally Posted by jet
How young women/men can do these things in front of their watching family beats me   I guess the parents etc just have to switch off and pretend it isn't happening...it must be awful for them though. |
You and I had an issue a short while ago,however that is past and gone.
What you say above is spot on, I always try to put myself in the position of housemates, I also do accept the house is a strange place and alters behaviour and maybe even personality at times too.
However, one thing that would always be in my mind,would be the public watching everything,if this was the first few series of BB fair enough but it has been on for 16 years now, those who go in, know sort of what it is like.
Then I would be aware my Family, Parents, Brothers,Grandparents if I had any and Friends and neighbours would also likely be watching.
For those reasons I would ensure, I did nothing to embarrass them as to my overall behaviour.
If Stephanie had been a Cousin or even just a Friend of mine, I would be totally ashamed of her behaviour in the house.
She didn't just publicly humiliate her live in boyfriend of a year,she rubbed salt into any of the wounds by constantly getting into bed with Jeremy on TV.
Anyone in a relationship who had a partner going into BB,who they believed they were going to have a life with in the future,would feel mad and disgusted at that Partner had they behaved so insensitively and disgracefully like Stephanie has.
I agree with Daniella, she has asked for all she is getting from others,whose own behaviour have at times been unacceptable but not totally lacking in dignity and decency such as has Stephanie's been.
I hate showmances with a passion anyway on BB but this one lacks any level of decency to it whatsoever in my view.
If I had acted like Stephanie in any avenue of life, I doubt I would even want to face my family again on coming out or back.
I hope, and feel sure I would actually feel thoroughly ashamed of myself.