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Originally Posted by Ammi
..both Scotty and Jeremy were both 'all over Tiffany' as well though on the truth or dare night, it was 3 people with very healthy sexual flirtation etc needs and having fun...Jeremy backed off because of Steph's 'woman scorned' reaction, even though she was cheating on her boyfriend, while he was free and single...obviously Scotty still had Megan in there, so he was sexy/sexy with her..but once she was evicted, there he was back initiating kisses and touches with Tiffany, he's flirted with her just as much as she has with him..she's the only one though who has been consistent with that because she hasn't had any complications of a show-mance in the house like the boys have and have given her mixed signals through it all (Scotty especially obviously..).. and she's a healthy lady who has been confused by it all...if there was any 'victim' in this, it would be Tiffany, she's not been any sort of predator or cougar or whatever, that's only what she's been made to look like because of the conflicting signals...and I do feel as though I'm looking at it objectively..(even though Tiff is my favourite..)...because if it was quite clear that Scotty and Megan had developed a relationship, then Scotty would not have been initiating stuff with Tiffany as soon as Megan was gone...sadly though, she's a female though, so...them female will so often get the full blame as Tiffany did from that silly audience lady...(also I think Tiff's right...that silly audience lady, would have 'been in there' as well, given the chance..  ..)...a little bit of jealousy maybe.... |
I have no problem with the flirting, Tiff and Scotty have both been at it and it's harmless enough really. What I can't have is her crude, lewd talk. Not everyone wants to endlessly hear all about her sexual needs and what she wants to do/have done to her. I can't recall a man ever talking like that in the house, going on and on about it.
Scotty has also been crude in the house but not as often or as explicit apart from the **** story which was disgusting. I don't like such crudity from anyone, man or woman.
Yes, men have traditionally gotten away with that sort of stuff, they are 'just being lads' etc. but do we really want to go THAT far down the road of equality that we want women to talk like that "because men get away with it"?
There are some things about women to be cherished and put above the vulgarity of some of us fellows, like having more dignity and self respect when it comes to explicit sex talk in public. I'm very open minded about most
things....but in this respect maybe I'm just old fashioned.
