[smudgie]

Absolutely no way.
He was too tired to drive, he should have pulled over.
The fact that he is a fireman might make people feel it is okay for him, working hero working hard to save others etc.
But it comes down to someone killing two innocent people through his total lack of consideration.
I could never forgive him, but I don't think I would carry a hate for him around with me, unlike if it had been a malicious murder.