[user104658]

It's not about what I have or don't have. I won't ever retire no matter how much money I make. I will be a full-time carer, until the day I die. Beyond that I have no idea what it looks like... Hopefully my other daughter will have a family, and they might be able, and willing, to help. Other than that I can't guarantee her life, health or happiness beyond the scope of my own life and the longer we go with uncaring, and now unbridled, governments like we have now the worse her future looks.

I'm going to be blunt and just say that no... No one who does not have disabled offspring can really understand that sort of fear.

I try not to dwell on it but it is always there.