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Originally Posted by Maru
She obviously has a complex relationship with the truth at times and ironically enough I don't think she actually intends to lie when she does. She also doesn't seem to remember her lies. She probably says things in the moment because she wants to believe it happened (like the cheating thing) or because she can't really compete win in a battle of egos with him.
She's taken the breakup personally instead of moving on and obviously this is not only embarrassing for her on national TV but that she has done things back home so she is trying quickly and haphazardly repair her image. Definitely 100% a drama queen and somewhat of a narcissist. I don't think it makes her a bad person, but this is not the environment to sort out her issues.
Jason is in over his head and is clumsy at best with his handling of her and it's just embarrassing now. They had to have been in a codependent relationship of some kind because he treats it like his responsibility to sort it out, not hers. Why can't he just accept it is for what it is, that he can't change what she will say and leave her to sort it out on her own? He obviously cares about her, but because it's a codependency he doesn't realize that what he is trying to repair is unrepairable.
Just my thought.
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...I've loved reading your thoughts this series, Maru..
...and pretty much where my thoughts are as well...I think that she for the most part genuinely believes what she says at the time that she says it because she's too absorbed in her emotions in a very unhealthy way...and I don't think that she's a bad person at all but a very does have huge self-esteem issues which just shouldn't be played out in the BB house environment...it's not fair on her and it's not fair on Jason because he can't distance himself in there...for me, the whole thing is becoming far too uncomfortable to watch in the name of 'entertainment' and I feel so sad for them both...I agree also that it's becoming obvious that he does care about her and wants her to be happy and 'come to terms with'...?..but is just so lost as to what to do...because really, it's not in his control or power to do anything, whether it be in or outside of the house...as he is 'her obsession/fixation'..he's just not the one to 'fix her'..is the very last person who can help her atm really...it's so sad to see how much this strange relationship is damaging both of them...
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