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Old 03-08-2016, 01:27 PM #11
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Originally Posted by armand.kay View Post
Saira is a bitch all of this is self inflicted and it honestly isn't even bad. She's not being bullied people need to stop overdramatising the situation.
..I know lots of children, armand who in adult terms and as adults would maybe be described as 'bitches' in that their personalities are not particularly endearing and can be quite unlikeable even..and it's easy to see why they're not accepted into 'groups' and why they're ridiculed and mocked by groups even..but who they are and what they are is separate from what is done to them and what is done to them are acts of bullying because of the intent to humiliate...however unlikeable Saira's personality is and however bad she is at expressing herself and I understand and get that she is...that's completely separate to her having a conversation with people and paying no never mind or antagonising anyone in those moments and what the 'squad' participated in, in doing to her and mocking/ridiculing her...that one act was an act of bullying and regardless of her personality, should be called for what it is...there is no one size fits all 'victim' of these things just because she's made herself unlikeable to some housemates and has been perceived as being a 'bitch' herself sometimes....

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