[Robodog]

The heated discussion in the kitchen was not bullying. It started out with Heavy D picking up Saira on her awful comments earlier about his weight/exercise, then Bear and Marnie joined in because they too had experienced Saira's negativity and judgment very recently.

So while it was 3 of them and only one of her, it wasn't a deliberate 'ganging up' on her, it was just how the conversation evolved, as they ALL had something to say about the rudeness that Saira had created. Heavy D got the ball rolling and so they just went with the opportunity to air their similar experience of Saira.

Don't get me wrong, i don't like how Bear, Heavy or Marnie have been either. But as far as that particular discussion goes, it was Saira reaping what she had sown.

My advice to Saira: If you don't want to have the kind of conversation where people get upset with you (ie - the kind of conversation that you could call 'bullying'), then don't upset people with negative, intrusive comments, questions and judgements about them in the first place!

All 4 of them are wrong in their own different ways. Weird, moody CBB that this is.