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Originally Posted by Ammi
..she's not an angel, she's not a saint...humans are flawed, that's what we are ...but it's a shame that what she did with Bear's food is something that's going to be focused on in one of her flaws as something which defines her and who she is because what she seems to be is all in all a very balanced lady with so much caring and thought for others... and for me, one time of doing what she did does not tip any balance in any way of the things that she's done in her life...I've been reading a bit about her and even before it could be said that anything was done for the publicity of it, she worked with service organisations and refugee centres, orphanages and with children with AIDS...she volunteered for THE PINK PROJECT, which supports the Breast Cancer Alliance and worked to help victims of Hurricane Katrina...she created her own organisation called FAN (Fighting Aids Now), focusing on giving therapy and art to children in hospital...(the healing of children through art and dance/music..being something that's quite close to my heart as well..)...(all information care of Wiki and many things she's devoted her time to fresh out of uni and before any self fame or fortune..)...so a pretty darn fine lady...yes she has a career or 'trivial' as well in comparison to all of that because she's a human being and wants stuff for herself as well but that makes no never mind because these are the important things which define a person..none of those children or people that she's made a difference to/whose lives she's made a little better in different ways will judge her because she spat in someone's food on a reality show and showed a poor judgement there...she won't win because of that anyway and that's the judgement that will be made and that's fair enough but beyond that she's actually a very, very decent and lovely human being..(who is flawed, let's not put her on any pedestals of perfection..)...
...Aubrey...  .... |
I can see your point Ammi and people often do deserve a second chance but what she did do was pretty disgusting and it was something with the potential to endanger another housemates health. It's very hard to eradicate that once it has happened.