[Mokka]

I would say the circumstances would dictate the answer. There would need to be real repentance... a some kind of assurance it wasn't going on or going to happen again.

I would like to think I could be a reasonable person who recognizes the fallacies of human nature and forgive and move on...but in reality I am pretty emotionally charged as it goes... jealous and all that ...and it would probably never leave my mind... and would end up destroying the foundation of trust in the relationship overall.