[Mokka]

Yes, I agree with Jamie. Sometimes grief has no rhyme or rhythm...that is to say it isn't logical nor can it be narrowed down to a pattern. I know losing my children would devastate me...as a parent...but after that... I really couldn't rate the people in my life like that

Yesterday I started thinking of one of my high school best friends who committed suicide almost three years ago now... and even though we only kept in touch in our later years through Facebook and a meet up here in there... I am still crushed when I think of him. I couldn't tell you why ... but it still effects me.