I wouldn't let it bother you too much Ann. At the end of the day, you can't win with everyone. I get called ageist because I wont add the under18s to myspace, msn, etc. And you get called worse because you do.
I wouldn't lie about it though, by saying it's cousins etc. Why should you have to lie? You have nothing to hide.
Just ignore them, or better yet, report them to bebo (like you did) and that'll teach them that they can't go calling you names on a networking site.
Life has enough drama... the net should be fun... You enjoy your Bebo and your friends, and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to change.
