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Originally Posted by TomC
sooo...
the meeting fell through because of a certain hangover of mine and we agreed to meet again but that time he cancelled
Ever since then I started to feel he wasn't that interested in meeting. He said we could meet any time, but in a friendly way initially, but suggested he was open to development. I feel like I've been blown off a bit, and I'm not sure if it's too needy to message again to try and arrange something
My friends came to the conlcusion today he's just not worth it because it's obvious from the messages I'm more into him than he is to me, but maybe he's just chilled, and it should also be considered we've not even met yet. The hard thing is though I just like him a lot in terms of looks and it's so hard to walk away and stop trying when I have been for almost two weeks now. I didn't talk about things to people so as not to look stupid, but obviously you run away with ur imagination sometimes. It's also really hard because we came so close to meeting twice, and in the first instance it was my fault we didn't.
Situations like this are sooo hard to read, and i don't wanna lose dignity. Should I just leave it?
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It's so hard to tell how someone feels just from their messages so I'd try not to read much into it if I were you, he might be trying to come across a certain way for example. You can't really know how into you he is from them. You won't lose any dignity in pursuing him/the situation by the way, like Caprimint said there's more to lose by doing nothing, and Winters advice is great too!
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Originally Posted by TomC
This is actually so true tbh. My friends are so concerned about 'playing it cool'. I mean it may be a bit embarrassing, but I guess it's worth one last try.
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Your friends mean well but 'playing it cool' is the worst advice imo
I think we all probably want to be chased and have relationships just happen but they don't, think about what 'playing it cool' actually means... it means 'do nothing', and if you do nothing you get nothing imo.