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Originally Posted by Jamie89
It's so hard to tell how someone feels just from their messages so I'd try not to read much into it if I were you, he might be trying to come across a certain way for example. You can't really know how into you he is from them. You won't lose any dignity in pursuing him/the situation by the way, like Caprimint said there's more to lose by doing nothing, and Winters advice is great too!
Your friends mean well but 'playing it cool' is the worst advice imo  I think we all probably want to be chased and have relationships just happen but they don't, think about what 'playing it cool' actually means... it means 'do nothing', and if you do nothing you get nothing imo.
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Hmm well I reinitiated the convo recetly but he was talking about someone else he got with last night... Pretty bad sign right?
I've just started to think, maybe he isn't the nicest person (I've certainly heard of him messing someone around), and maybe all he's getting from this is a massive ego boost.
Our latest convo has now ended and my gameplan was to mention tonight meeting up one last time, but after reflection and convo with my friends maybe he just really isn't worth it. But he still is in my head a lot lol.