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Originally Posted by Ammi
..I'm a bit confused Tom...so you're feeling a little deflated because you think it means that he hasn't liked you/didn't feel any connection with you..?...I don't do Facebook but I would imagine that people just like stuff if they can relate in any way or have related in any way so that might be just equally something he's felt in the past rather than the present...you've only had one date so he isn't really going to feel his whole world is completely different straight away but that doesn't mean that wouldn't come in time either with getting to know each other more and more and spending more time together...?...and his texts have all been positive and those texts have been directly to you/related directly to you, whereas the Facebook thing is more of a general thing and isn't aimed at you...so I would go with the texts I what you feel they say and tell you....and yeah as Jamie says, I would text him and just say that you really enjoyed spending time with him and it would be nice to do something again...maybe if you have a party or anything coming up soon, you could ask if he would like to come as well..?...
..it all sounds fairly positive though and a good vibe from him....ooooo and a kiss as well/yummy...  ...good luck and try not to overthink or read too much into the Facebook thing because the texts and your own contact with him is really the 'telling' stuff.... |
Yeah you're right, I'm gonna try not to read into it.
Is 2 days a good amount of time after to mention a second date?