We are not China
, that said the mindset that we can have as many kids as we like and the state will provide needs changing. I listened to a phone in on this subject last week, some of the statements made were astounding..mother of 8 saying it was her human right to have as many kids as she pleased, yes it is I guess if you can afford it
A worried grandparent who said his daughter has 4 kids because she thought the state would always provide, and so on. We need to get back to the idea of providing for ourselves and leaving the state to pick up those who got into difficulties through no fault of their own.