[VanessaFeltz.]

I think it makes some people into better people however i dont think everyone should be a mother or motherhood contributes everyone.

We have obvious reasons of good results of motherhood so lets skip that

For bad reasons, i think a lot of women lose their identity after giving birth and they go from being Melanie to Mark's mother. They always talk about their kids, post pictures of them.. When you ask them what about you they cant give an answer and when their kids go to uni etc they kinda go into depression.

Women&men become way more responsible and calmer.. but is that really a good thing? Sure it is a good thing in a way because you have to take care of your baby you gave a birth to. But i dont like the fact that society forces you to have babies and basically want you to live under same rules and become same sorts of people and i think thats sad, diversity is very much needed and i think too many people are having kids. Life should not be about one way of living.

I am gonna have a development psychology this semester so i think i will have a better answer in couple of months