Wait. Are you taking transwoman/man to mean someone who has had (or seriously plans to) have SRS? If so..I think we might be on the same ****ing page anyway
This does not represent the majority of trans gender people though. The huge majority have no plans for SRS or anything and don't even suffer sex dysphoria :S these are the ones I can make no sense of
Edit again. I have totally brainfarted and lost my train of thought as having so many convos at once. Going in the bath then trying to sort this out. Ugh.