[Paula D]

Sam, some of your post above is understandable but you're losing the argument by constantly bringing sexuality into it.

You're obsessed with this "darling boy" comment. That was not aggressive or intimidation. It was goading yeh but more fool Joe for falling for it.

By the way, I've asked my lads what they thought and they said that Andrew was deliberately pressing Joes buttons and Joe fell for it hook, line and sinker. Just like you have.

Anyone who would punch someone for saying that (which is what you're suggesting) is either homophobic or unsure of their own sexuality. Simple as.

I agree with you on a lot of the other points but this is simply not one of them.