Thanks Sunny - that was exactly what I was trying to say.
Sunshine - I'm sorry if I sounded rude or harsh. I know you are entitled to your opinion, and even though I disagree with you, I would defend your right to be able to express it. I was tired lst night, and I probably took your posts to heart because I have two very good friends who are in a same sex relationship, and who hope to adopt. I know that any child they adopt will have a very loving and safe childhood, so your comment really got to me. I know I was probably quite rude, and while I stand by my opinions 100%, I shouldn't have expressed them in the way I did. Sometimes I get carried away when it's a subject I feel so strongly about.