I would say that some women do not have the ability to be 'single' they find men in the pub friday move him in by sunday... and then wonder why they get treated badly...
Its sad that some choose to be treated badly than think they are worth so much more and would be better off single than to be treated like dog mess...
((hugs)) for those ladies with low self esteem who have not yet found their 'kick them up the arse and kick them out' mentality.. it will come you will find your strength