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Originally Posted by TomToWin
I had my first man on man snog on Saturday night and I enjoyed it. I have never done this before so am I gay because I liked it?
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Not necessarily. Sexuality is pretty fluid. There's plenty of straight guys who enjoy making out with men, and there's gay men that enjoy sex with women or kissing women. My friend's a lesbian yet she's finding she enjoys kissing boys.
In the end, it comes down to what you're comfortable with and everything else. Do you feel romantically interested in men? Or is it just sexual? Or is it just kissing them? Do you feel sexual and romantic interest with women? I'm sure if you think about those questions you'll figure it out yourself - but obviously the answer is not as clear. Sexuality can take years to come to terms to, but it all boils down to what you're comfortable with. No matter what label you choose or feel comfortable with, it doesn't take away or add to your identity - you'll always be you, and you'll always enjoy what you do, even if it differs between genders.