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Originally posted by Sunny_01
Z - go to the party at the end of the day it is an opportunity to maybe remember some of the things that you like about your friend rather than the things that wind you up. He might do something that really makes you laugh at the party and do you want to miss that!!!
Also there are your other friends, do you want to miss out on a night with them? ask this guy if you can take along the pal that was not invited? worth asking it might have been a simple over sight on his part.
The great thing about friends (real friends) is that if you decided not to go he would totally understand, he might even ask if things are ok which might give you both the chance to really sit down and have a chat.
Try to remember all the reasons you ended up friends with this guy, remember why you like him so much at times then you might see things in a different light.
Whatever you do have a great night xxx
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I think I'm probably going to go. I just feel really, really bad about going, when I know that he'll just end up annoying me again, even if it's not tonight, and I feel I'm taking advantage. But I guess you're right, I mean, we've been friends for 4 and a bit years, and a lot of my other friends are going. Thank Sunny