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Originally Posted by Vicky.
Are you bi DR? Or did you still see them as a bloke even though they want to be a woman? Did you actually see them as a woman?
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I am bi but regardless of that, I saw this person as a woman. I'd seen him as a man and didn't find him as attractive. I think what I found particularly attractive about her is, the way she embraced and celebrated her feminine side. She was brave enough to do what came naturally to her and she did come over very naturally.
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I have a transsexual woman in my extended family actually. My husbands cousins sister is dating one. Its quite an odd situation, as the transsexual woman has has a boob job and dresses 'as a woman' (infact she was the bridesmaid at my husbands cousins wedding, which raised a few eyebrows as honestly, she still looks very very manly) and does want the full op, but her partner says if she has the full op she will split up with her as she wants..basically..a penis to shag. So she sees her as a bloke obviously but is fine with her wanting to look 'like a woman' (though as I said, she really does NOT look like a woman at all, looks like a bloke in dresses with a boob job). And the transsexual women has agreed not to get the op as she wants to keep her current partner. Its all quite weird to me but each to their own. I could never shag a bloke who had had a boobjob (and whos boobs are ****ing better than mine as they are plastic!). I refer to this person by their name, and try to avoid using pronouns whenever possible as I know I will slip up. Its easy to use her pronouns when typing though as I can go back and correct myself whenever necessary. This person though, is not one of the crazies who will go bat**** on people for saying 'he' and accuse them of transphobia, and they readily admit that they are male, rather than saying they are female and have always been female just because they say so like so many 'transgenders' do, and also does not call herself a 'lesbian' as she knows that lesbians are female people. Which ties in even more with my opinion that its not actual transsexuals who are the problem, its the new breed of 'transgenders' with an entitled attitude who think the world revolve around them and everyone should ignore what they can see with their own eyes and lie.
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Your relative wants a chick with a d*ck!! I can see her point! though I wouldn't be interested in enhanced breasts.
My years in the London clubland probably made me a lot more open-minded. I've been to fet clubs like TG's where you can be anyone you want to be and as I said here recently, at the end of the night when everything else was closed, we all used to pile into Alices Cafe attached to Stunners (probably the biggest transexual club in London). Before I'd had all that experience, I wouldn't have been nearly so tolerant but when you spend some good positive time around these people, you quickly learn that many of them are just the same as us but with a slightly different angle.
I'm well aware of the loud-mouthed chicks who drive lorries through the week and sneak out on a Saturday night without their wife knowing, to parade around (usually in front of a nightclub mirror) in a frock and ridiculously high heels in the hope that someone will tell them how gorgeous they look. I've had some seriously bitchy sarcasms from jealous, overzealous shehe's who begrudge a real female intrusion into the ladies loos! but those loud mouth demanding transexuals are just not nice people, regardless of how they dress and its people like them who are spoiling it for the nice ones.