[jaxie]

With regards to the older women scenario, I'm not going to argue that there aren't predatory women but there was a woman on the estate where I grew up who had kids older than me and who was known as the local bike. Except if you look a bit more closely you might say she was as much a victim as anyone. She liked a lot of sex and she was lonely. Men came in and out of her life and used her. There were beatings and broken relationships all over the drama of her life. I remember when I was around fifteen she dated a guy of eighteen for a while. It was pretty clear he was using her for easy sex while she became emotionally involved. Was she really the predator? I'm not convinced she was.