The story here is basically "77 year old woman doesn't understand what modern video games are and gets very angry about stuff".
Backed up by others from another time / generation. They "get it" when it's movies, or TV, but to them, games are "things like Mario" that are a bit of lighthearted fun... Therefore, if there's abuse in a game, it must be for the sake of lighthearted fun.
Meh. They'll die off soon enough
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