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Originally Posted by Jack.
So I’ve been talking to a girl for ages I’ve known her for years. Last few weeks she’s been saying she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me but then today out of the blue she said that she doesn’t want a relationship at the moment. So have I just been friend zoned or has she just been messing me around?
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Sounds like they are having anxiety. Maybe that's just me.
I think the younger you are (I don't know your age), the more likely it is to happen. When the husband and I first got together (I was 18), he dragged his feet on calling it a relationship though we called each other frequently and leaned on each other for emotional support. It was definitely a relationship, but for him it was difficult to call it that at the time since he was going through a lot at the time in his personal life. We took our time getting married too.
I think if they are worth it, wait a good bit and be patient. Either way, give them enough space it work it out on their own. If they aren't being upfront to a certain enough point that you can reasonably say a relationship is being built, then you have to draw your own conclusions and that may mean cutting your losses and moving on.